Don’t bail out friends and family with loans

A debt advice agency in the UK has warned that lending money to friends and family could have an adverse effect on both the lender and the borrower.

Officials from the Debt Advice Bureau claim that it is better to offer family and friends advice and support when they run into financial problems rather than throwing money at them by way of loans. In many cases these loans are not fully repaid and can put a strain on the relationship, and often this type of action results in people becoming reliant on loans from family and friends to bail them out if they get into financial difficulties.

Officials from the Debt Advice Bureau state that consumers should help family and friends to overcome debt and finance related problems rather than encouraging them to rely on others to help them out financially, as this can simply lead to a cycle of debt, and could even lead to the borrower getting themselves into debt in order to help out the family member of friend, which can make matters even worse.

One official from the bureau said that by lending money to friends and family consumers could be making the problem worse for all concerned.

He stated: “You don’t want to be laying the groundwork that every time they have a slight cashflow problem, you come to the rescue.”

Official figures show that in many cases the money that is lent to friends and family members is not received back in full, and in some cases is not repaid at all.

According to the results of a recent survey, only around 58% of 70% of consumers that had loaned money to family member had been fully repaid. Of the 59% that had lent money to a friend only 27% had been fully repaid. 

Tom Smith
6th October 2007

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